ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Family and faith are my top-most priorities in the life I am blessed to share with my beautiful and dedicated bride; we're the proud parents of two brilliant, caring and creative adult children, and enjoy the companionship and antics of our three furry, purry pets. We live amid the nature and majestic scenery of the Rocky Mountain region, but love adventuring to explore the many other creative wonders and captivating cultures on God's beautiful Earth.
I've arrived at the descriptor of "nurturer" for myself because it crisply captures the important purpose of the two "jobs" I've kept myself busy with over the past couple of decades. I work at a middle school with struggling readers during the school year, and overlap that at a greenhouse/garden center taking care of flowers (and customers) for a few intense months in the spring and summer. Both jobs bring me joy, inspiration, and cool opportunities. Although they differ widely in their execution, the compelling commonality of both jobs is the emphasis on "nurturing." I endeavor to create the ideal environment for optimum development and growth for both budding young readers and seedling flowers. Witnessing the blossoming of a beautiful flower or the beautiful mind of a child is a glorious reward!

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Resolutions-- or NOT!

Funny word.  Sounds like REVOLUTION (and may even cause inner, personal ones sometimes) but is truly an unrelated word, except in its pattern of derivation from verb to noun.  Both words seem to trip over some linguistic root and end up with a random euphemic change: REVOLT/ REVOLVE--REVOLUTION; (so, do revolutionists turn constantly in circles?) RESOLVE--RESOLUTION.  According to ordinary phonics patterns, the word logically should become resolve+tion=resolv(drop the "e")tion/sion-- RESOLVSION, but our tongues have problems doing that, so, hey--let's use that "u" and "v" interchangeable thing, and voila; we have RESOLUTION, much easier to say.  Only now, we've added an extra syllable, and discreetly disguised from whence it derived--so that one needs to have more experience with language than they otherwise should in order to recognize that the words are related.  (So, which language group does the interchangeable "u" and "v" come from?)  If we apply back-formation for the noun RESOLUTION, logical choices for the original verb become RESULT or RESOLUTE--both very useful words, and even thematically applicable: we do, after all, wish for results from our resolutions and often become resolute (for awhile, anyway) in keeping them.  But, resolute is an adjective, not a verb--although it does stem from the same original Latin root, and result, of course, remains a noun, and seems to have no connection.   And, now that we've got that sorted out, how is the resolution of your photos when you go to print them from the computer related to New Years?  Or those resolutions that get voted on to become laws--are they someone's New Year's resolutions on steroids?  How confusing (and thrilling!) language is.  Don't you think?

That said, do you have a habit of using the change of the calendar as a motivational chance to help you make a positive change in your life, or habits, or goal-setting?  If it works for you--I say, resolutely march on, my friends!  Ignore the cynics and naysayers who may mock you for your naivete or idealism, and proudly strive toward a better you in whatever way works.  If New Year's Resolutions are ideas having only grazed your consciousness back in your elementary school days when prim and intimidating, but smiley and encouraging, Mrs. Teacher sunnily introduced it as the writing assignment for the first day back after Christmas break, and your sugar-dazed, sleep-deprived consciousness tried its best to ignore it then, so you've made a habit of ignoring it every year since; then I say, hey--you've grown up now, maturity has outgrown over-indulgence of Christmas sweets, and under-indulgence of ample slumber, so maybe, this is the year.  Give it a try.  Strive for a better you, and resolve to make a change or accomplish a goal. Couldn't hurt--much.

Now that you've been etymologically edified and sardonically motivated, enjoy this variety of random New Year's Resolution lists I've come up with:

5 NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS I MAY HAVE MADE--sometime in the past
  1.  I will not procrastinate.
  2.  I will become a published author before the end of the year.
  3.  I will write letters to my family and friends more often.
  4.  I will have a girlfriend this year.
  5.  I will stop "just getting by" and get the grades I know I can get.
7 NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS I HAVE NEVER MADE--nor likely ever will make
  1.  I will eat less chocolate this year.
  2.  I will take up running for my health.
  3.  I will wear a tie to work more often.
  4.  I won't spend money on travel this year.
  5.  I will stop being a "snoopy father." 
  6.  I won't allow myself to become emotionally connected to my students.
  7.  I will go shopping more often--just for fun.  
4 NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS I'D HAVE NO PROBLEM KEEPING--but have never made
  1.  I will soak in a hot springs at least 5 times this year.
  2.  I will let everyone know how brilliant and creative my kids are.
  3.  I will keep my mind healthy by playing card games and doing word puzzles.
  4.  I will embrace ethnic diversity by eating international cuisine as often as I can.
3 NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS (each) MY FAMILY WOULD LIKELY NEVER MAKE
   the Princess:
  1. I will wear monochromatic outfits in matching, subdued colors, and NO hats.
  2. I will refrain from referencing any favorite movies, novels, plays, TV shows, or songs in my daily interaction with those around me.
  3. I will be sure to make it to bed by midnight, no matter what I want to or have to do. 
 the Boy:
    1. I will refrain from using my computer for at least two hours of my awake time each day.
    2. I will launder, fold, and put away my clothes as often as (Dad deems) necessary.
    3. I will be sure to make it to bed by midnight, no matter what I want to or have to do.
    the Bride:
      1. I will check out and read only one book at a time from the library every week.
      2. I will only bake cookies, or scones, or brownies, on special occasions.  
      3. I will not sing along with the radio or CD's when I drive in the car.

       6 NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS I SHOULD MAKE THIS YEAR--but probably won't
      1. I will make use of my new snowshoes this winter, and our (not so new) canoe this summer.
      2. I will finish (after several years) re-making the flower gardens in the front of the house.
      3. I will commit to spending "just the right amount of time" writing on my blog and various other creative pieces
      4. I will sort through the heaps of "stuff" strategically stored in the house, and get rid of what we  really don't need, and neatly organize the rest.
      5. I will be sure to make it to bed by midnight, no matter what I want to or have to do.
      6. I will not procrastinate.
       But, no matter how you choose to commemorate or celebrate or calculate it, we are resolute in wishing you a New Year effervescing with energy, entertainment, edification, and enjoyment! 

      Friday, December 21, 2012

      Sensical Tour--Part V: TOUCH

      "Oh, what a touching scene!"  "You should get in touch with your feminine side. . . "  "We'll leave nothing untouched in our search for answers."   We've burdened the word with heavy expectations, using it in multiple ways with a variety of meanings.  Even though it nearly always seems to appear last in the list of senses, it is clearly deemed a very important sense.  You've probably heard of or read research results that prove how vital the sense of touch is to humans: the severe social, emotional, or mental disabilities that occur in young children who have been deprived of human touch as they develop; the amazing benefits of touch in patients healing from illness or disease.  Can anyone quote the statistics on the number of nerve sensors in the varying parts of the human body?  It's staggering information, further validating how very important the sense of touch truly is. Anyway, for the final leg of this hyper-extended "sensical tour," pique your neural acuity, as I invite you to "get in touch" with the goings-on in our lives.

      *****tingly warmth and bubbling relaxation of the "healing waters" found in a variety of natural hot springs in nearby-ish regions is a frequent source of neural splendor for us.  ++Always love the scenic grandeur of the Canadian Rockies, so reveled in two wonderful days soaking in two different hot springs in British Columbia just a few hours north of us after dropping Malina at the train to return to MN from her spring break in March, and as my week off began.  Enjoyed a tasty Japanese lunch in Banff too; and the beautiful, sunshiny day with pure blue skies prompted us to drive further west on a highway we hadn't been on before.  Incredible frozen blue waterfalls across the valley were an awesome and unique sight to behold.   ++In our long weekend in October, we soaked at two more springs in Montana that we hadn't been to before, and another one we've done a couple times before.  White Sulphur Springs in central Montana has super murals of local scenery and nature painted on the walls along the soaking pool and toasty, silky waters.  Aaaahhh!  One of the only two spots you can "swim" in Yellowstone National Park is near the North entrance by Gardiner, MT.  Where the steamy, sulphurous waters of the Boiling River flow out of Mammoth Hot Springs and splash down the rocks mixing together with the icy pure water of the Gardiner River, they create warm, soothing, bubbly comfort.  Our morning soak in this delightful natural spot was a wondrous beginning to our day's trek through Yellowstone and its highlights.  Got to love God's gifts of the sensory wonders and warmth of natural hot springs, and so often amid such scenic marvels!

      *****overwhelming, goose-bumpy contentment is the best I can do to describe the parental "feeling" of having all of us home together during the kids' break from college.  Princess has been home since a day before Thanksgiving, and we drove to Bozeman and retrieved the son last weekend.  Both will go back in early January, but I'll will savor the warmth and completeness of familyhood for the few weeks we're all together.  A few favorite meals, a couple movies, and whatever extended-family events we can fit in over Christmas are all the plans we have for now--but even if it's just ordinary life-stuff, the "rightness" of being together is cozy and joyous and "touching."

      *****wintry wetness, and fingertip numbness during our church's "live nativity" with Christmas caroling before the town's annual "Night of Lights" Christmas season celebration the first Friday in December.  We've participated in this for several years now, and the beautiful bride and a couple other musicians always play their guitars while whoever else sings all the traditional Christmas songs; kids from church are costumed as Mary and Joseph, shepherds and wisemen, and gathered around a stable; we offer hot cocoa and hand out cards declaring Christ as the "Reason for the Season" to all the passing-by revelers.  Very cool opportunity for witnessing, and a fun tradition.  Weather is always a questionable factor however; this year wasn't terribly cold--just quite wet, with flaky moist snow falling most of the time we were caroling--resulting in some rather soggy songbooks--and even after so many years, we've still found no solution for the frosty fingertips of the guitarists.  Just has become a sacrifice they're willing to endure.  What a festive chance to start the joyous Christmas season off with the proper perspective!

      *****more wintry wetness--along with evergreen prickles, uphill out-of-breathness, and the warm, homey contentment of a tasty Mom-made dinner were feelings accompanying our annual Christmas-tree retrieval trip to my parents' mountain ranch.  Bride, princess and I tramped around on the hillside near Dad's house for three or four hours, necks craned upward, scanning the forested landscape, searching for a peek of that ideal conical shape--tall enough but not too tall,  perfect fullness, bright soft greenness--but when we hadn't made a final decision as dark approached, we decided to retrace and chose an "almost" consideration from earlier.  Ended up needing to use the headlights as I bundled it up to tie to the cartop.  Narrower than usual, and perhaps missing a branch or two from some angles--it now looks as grand as ever once we finally got it colorfully illumined and decorously ornamentalized.  And, in fact, we even appreciate the little extra space in our living room that the "narrowness" allows.  And, while the evergreen reminds us of God's eternal love and the eternal life we have from Him, and the lights cause us to remember that our Christmas-born Savior came to be the "Light of the World," the tree is NOT the focal point of Christmas.  All praises to Him who we celebrate in this joyous season!

      *****draggy, trance-like mornings, unavoidable afternoon drowsiness, and sleep deprivation-induced headachiness are feelings I've experienced a bit too frequently this past couple weeks; getting to bed at a time that would allow me to feel "well rested" is often too rare of an occurrence and becomes even further demoted in priority when other important tasks, or chances to visit with my college-kids (who happen to operate on a quite inverted sleep schedule while on vacation) are vying for attention.  Creating and composing our Christmas newsletter and photo card was the task that competed for my late-night time this past week, but I did finally complete them to my perhaps a bit perfectionistic standard of acceptability.  Actually sent them via attachments on an email to any of the folks we have e-addresses for.  Always feel a bit guilty when choose this less-personal and non-traditional mode of delivery, but certainly keeps them more timely, and saves a bunch on postage and paper.  Plus, it makes them easier to view/read in most cases, as they appear bigger on the computer screen than when printed on to paper.  So, I ask for forgiveness and post them digitally anyway.  Again, connecting with family and friends is only a secondary benefit of Christmas, and I need to be reminded of that when I start to "fuss" over it so dramatically.  But,  I do so love sharing and connecting with family and friends from across the country and around the world whenever and however I can.  

      Well, now that you've gotten "back in touch" with our lives, maybe my "touchy-feely" post has worn itself out; so guess I'll call my "sensical tour" complete, and publish this piece before it gets delayed again.  (Only took  an entire year to finish the series!)   May your life effervesce with "touching" moments and be filled with "feel-good" times.  A very blessed Christmas to you and all your loved ones!